Hey! Nice to have more people on board.

As promised. Took me a while before I realizeds they weren't on my Photobucket and I should stopp looking there. Here are all your H/W Slumber Party needs: Invitation Permission Slip(must be filled out) Camp Hoyay Viewing Schedule NOTE: Do not put any real phone numbers on the permission slip. Although all of you are smart enough not to. :D

Oh, HTR, those are great, thanks!!

Thease are ace!! Thank you : D

Thanks HTR. :D

Lol, great job HTR!

From the House/Cameron thread: But then I've also had the idea for a long time that while House didn't judge Wilson's infidelities, his continual references to Wilson's wife was meant as a reminder to Wilson that he was married, even if Wilson wanted to ignore it.) Hmm, maybe. For the record I do not believe that House broke up Wilson's marriages, Wilson is responsible for his own actions. Having said that House clearly was not concerned with his marriages working out and had no problem calling Wilson away whenever he wanted him. Again, I'm not saying it's House's fault but as Bonnie said, he didn't help. Outside of fanfics, when did House ever ask Wilson to ditch his wife and be with him or call him away from home in the middle of the night? Damned If You Do - Wilson invites House over for dinner. House declines. So Wilson invites himself to House's. House says "Your wife doesn’t mind being alone at Christmas?" Wilson replies "I’m a doctor. She’s used to being alone. I don’t want to talk about it." Daddy's Boy - Wilson and House had dinner the night before House buys the motorcycle and House asks Wilson to dinner the night his parents are coming to town. Is there evidence that they spent any other evenings together (outside of working late) prior to the split? I know Bonnie said "You always needed him, and he was always there for you" but I don't think we saw examples of that during Wilson's marriage to Julie. On the contrary, when Wilson hangs out at the hospital after work, House asks him "Why are you playing foosball here at 8 o' clock at night?" and tells him "Go home and have sex with your wife." I agree with Namaste that House takes marriage seriously. He even believes in forgiveness (his speech to the husband in Fidelity.) But because he also believes the worst about everyone, he's continually disappointed.

He phones Wilson in the middle of dinner (with guests) in Honeymoon, but that's the only example I can think of. I agree that it seems to be fanon that House insinuates himself - much as the fanon belief that he exists on a diet of pizza and Chinese takeout. ETA: And macadamia nut pancakes. Mustn't forget the pancakes.

from the Honeymoon transcript: Wilson: What’s up? House: Love the bear, it was adorable. Wilson: My wife’s going to kill me. We’re having company, she cooked. House: I got Mark’s la-*test*-('") blood work, he’s not responding to treatment. Wilson: I’m sorry. House: I was happy. He’s my patient. I’m sure he’s a good guy, he’s probably a great guy. Probably a much better guy than I am. And some part of me wants him to die. I’m just not sure if it’s because I want to be with her or if it’s because I want her to suffer.

Honeymoon-House calls Wilson in the while he and Julie are supposed to be having a dinner party to talk to him in the bar. That's the only one I can think of off the top of my head. I'm not saying that House condones Wilson's cheating but is there really any doubt that Wilson's marriages suffered at least in part because he was spending all his time with House? Yes, House has made comments about Wilson's cheating but whenever Wilson has actually brought up how much his marriage was suffering House declines talking about it. If House declined coming over to Wilson's in DIYD, why couldn't he have declinced Wilson coming over to his place? House wanted him there and they both didn't want to talk about Wilson's "she's used to being alone" comment. Daddy's Boy - Wilson and House had dinner the night before House buys the motorcycle and House asks Wilson to dinner the night his parents are coming to town. And then "unlike her, I can make it worth your while." Hoyay left out of this, it was a joke but House still wanted Wilson to take him out to dinner even though he knew things were strained between Wilson and Julie.

Didn't House sleep with Stacy after she married Mark, which really doesn't jive with House taking marriage seriously?

Okay, so in Season 1 Wilson invites himself to dinner once and House calls Wilson in the middle of dinner once. In Season 2 they have dinner once and have dinner plans a week later which fall through because of work. There are people I dislike that I've spent more evenings with over the course of a year and a half. ETA: I agree that House would prefer Wilson be with him than at home with his wife. But I also think the evidence shows that House wasn't continually asking Wilson to make a choice between his wife and House. Wilson made those choices with no prompting from House.

Well I think we have to assume that House and Wilson spent a great deal of time together because in Fools for Love, Wilson says to House "My marriages were so crappy I was spending all my time with you."

...is there really any doubt that Wilson's marriages suffered at least in part because he was spending all his time with House? *All* his time? Yes, I'd say there's doubt whether he spent all his time with House so there's doubt that his marriage suffered because of it. To me there seems to be little doubt that Wilson drifted away from his wife and his marriage suffered because of that. I don't think it canon that a) House encouraged it – Poeia's examples illustrate that he did the opposite on more than one occasion – or b) that it was House that passively or knowingly drew Wilson away from his marriage as much as Wilson drifting away and spending more time with House as a result of it.